Questions: What's the best way to be hitting the g spot?

The first step to hitting the g spot is to know where it is on your partner. Review our website page with g spot pictures and our exercise on finding the g spot.

Once that’s clearer, then you’ve got a couple of options. In the beginning its usually easiest to hit the g spot with your fingers. This lets you get a tactile sense of how the g-spot feels, how its shape changes, and what kind of pressure your partner likes.

Also, we’ve found the crystal wand to be really helpful. It has a very specific shape and design to make it easy to find and hit the g spot. It can be a very helpful tool for your partner to use on herself too (she can then more easily tell you how to best go about hitting the g spot)

After you’re more experienced, you can move on to hitting the g spot during sex. Check out our pages on g spot sex and g spot positions.

I also recommend you join our free ecourse. Its full of our favorite tips, techniques and exercises and is an excellent resource.