Ladies and Gentlemen … Its time to learn some g spot positions and shake things up! Don’t be content with just a few positions. Find ways to pleasure yourself you didn’t even know about!
If you like normal couple sex that lasts 5 – 10 minutes, don’t read this g spot positions page. If you’re feeling adventurous, and ready to blow your mind then please, proceed.
So, the first step in hitting your g spot during sex is to know where it is! For a refresher course, check out this page on the g spot location. You also may want to check out our section on g spot stimulation by using the navigation buttons over on the left.
From here on, we’re going to assume that you (and your partner) know where your g-spot is, and how to best stimulate it to give you pleasure.
Now that that’s all taken care of – lets focus on g spot positions. The first step is to recognize that the g spot, or g spot area, is small and not always in the same place. So, throughout your sex you’ll both need to be communicating. What works, what feels good, what doesn’t, a little to the right, a little to the left, etc.
In the beginning, as you explore different g spot positions, its likely best if you agree not to have orgasms. We’ve found this makes it easy to have a sense of exploration and play.
And, without further delay, here are our three favorite g spot positions. Enjoy!
Ride ‘Em Cowboy
I have to say there’s something so sexy about a woman being on top, in charge of finding what feels the best.
Really, this position is ideal because it allows you to control the depth, intensity, and speed. It gives you the ability to play, and explore, and notice how much more pleasure comes from subtle differences.
As you are on top, experiment with what feel’s best to you. Move, shift, tell your partner what feel’s good, rock back and forth, take it deep, keep it shallow, etc. This will likely work best if you are already aroused and hot. (This is true with all these g spot positions)
Now, as the guy in this position, you’re not just laying back passively (thought that is fine to do – just not now!). What will help your partner most is if you tilt your pelvis as much as possible. The more you can do this, the better.
You’ll also get a great workout! : )
Unfortunately, if you are anything like me, you’ll get super tired super quick. When we were first experimenting with g spot positions we used a lot of pillows to try to angle my hips. Lately, we’ve really been enjoying something called the wedge . This small shape puts your pelvis in the perfect tilted position without you having to do any work.
I know it sounds crazy, but the small, subtle positioning this enables, makes all the difference. Get the wedge, and try it out. You’ll be sending us thank you letters! : )
This is one of our favorite g spot positions. Not only do you have great g-spot access, but there’s just something so primal and sexy about *&#*! from behind.
Now, guys, in this position you can take it easy and let her do all the work. In this case, ladies, use your thighs to press back and find the depth, thrust style, and position that works best for you.
However, guys, if you want to be more active, you can easily adapt this position. Push your woman down, and lay more on top of her (still coming in from behind)
Now, for the best g spot stimulation, position your legs outside of hers and put more of your weight forward, so you are riding her from up higher.
This puts your penis on more of a downward angle, and helps you hit her g-spot more directly. You can also experiment with having her legs more open, or more closed to see what feels best.
One thing we’ve added to our g spot positions lately, is our trusted friend, the wedge. We found if we put that underneath my girlfriend, it gives her hips a particular tilt that totally amp things up. We used to use a couple of pillows, but the wedge gives my girlfriend the perfect tilt, and makes this position feel even better.
We love this one! With many g spot positions, you can’t easily maintain eye contact. With this one, its easy – and we recommend you do.
Also, having your legs up high and wide apart is the secret ingredient for g spot stimulation. Putting your feet on your partner’s shoulders can often be the most comfortable of g spot positions – and its super sexy!
Now, you can do this position in lots of ways. You can do it like in the picture – off your sofa, a chair, or your coffee table (we won’t tell!). Or, you can modify it to work off your bed by kneeling vs standing. The only real key to this position is that your partner is angled upward, with her legs spread wide or on your shoulders. You can achieve this combination in lots of different ways (be creative!)
While I don’t want to sound like a broken record the wedge can be very helpful with this position too. However, you might want to add a ramp to it as well to help get the extra height.