Master Your G Spot

For those of you who want to get a first-hand look at some female squirting videos here’s what you need to know…

First, let me explain what female cum really is. Female ejaculation is when a woman orgasms so hard that at the time of orgasm she ejaculates. The ejaculate comes out of her urethra, not her vagina. That means she’s ejaculating out of her pee hole, like a guy does, but what comes out is certainly not urine.

Let’s face it – porn is mostly made for and by men, and is either perplexing, boring, or downright offensive to most women. I have found this to be the case even with women-centered or woman-produced porn.

What you typically see in adult squirting videos is not real female cum. In most cases the adult actress has liquid inserted into her vagina, then she pushes it out during the scene. If the ejaculate is coming out of her vagina, that’s a big indicator that it’s fake.

When you witness real women squirting, the ejaculate that you see is a clear fluid that comes from the Skene’s Gland (also called the periurethral glands, or paraurethral glands). It gets built up during stimulation, then pushed into the urethra, and out during orgasm.

So, how do you make a girl squirt? The best technique for giving a woman a squirting orgasm is to directly stimulate either her G-Spot or A-Spot using your fingers. Using your fingers allows you to directly stimulate these sensitive spots.

The best technique for giving her a squirting orgasm is the one demonstrated in this G-Spot video.

As you stimulate her you’ll feel the front wall of her vagina begin to swell. This is called the urethral sponge and it will start to balloon out as it fills with ejaculate. Just before she’s about to explode, her urethral sponge will swell so much that it will probably push your hand or penis out of her vagina just before she squirts.

Female ejaculate has a bit a sweet taste because it contains glucose. The composition of female cum is similar to the fluid generated in the male prostate gland.

For many women, squirting is not something they are aware they can do. They mistake the feeling of ejaculate building up as the sensation of needing to urinate. As a result these women squeeze their PC muscle just before orgasm in attempt to hold back urine which prevents the ejaculate from coming out, thus denying her of the full body sensation of the squirting orgasm.

OK, on the whole, I would definitely pick a sexier title (squirting orgasms? real squirts?), and the actors in these are obviously shaved and seasoned pros, but the following squirting orgasm videos have my seal of approvalfor being educational and informative, pretty natural and real, as well as being quite a turn-on.

Female Ejacaulation: Your Complete Guide

This video, done up documentary style, is narrated with a touch of wit, by a man (Seymore Butts himself) who tells the stories of women, who – one way or another – experience ejaculation and female squirting orgasm, in a variety of edifying ways…

Its generally hot, sexy, and inspiring – and if you can believe it, instructional as well.

Real Squirt Website

This site is truly fascinating. Its run by a French-Canadian hottie – with the invocative name of “Kream” – who invites other lovely willing women into her bed to offer them the real experience of squirting or ejaculation – many, for the first time.

We like it because it has hours of hot sexy female ejaculation action (her alone, with other women, couples, strap on sex, and more), as well as a down-to-earth, real person vibe. Its a rare combination.

(Don’t tell my girlfriend, but I also loved some of the other sites you get free membership too, especially the really young hottie Christina Young and the double penetration star Peter North)

Well, we hope you enjoy our recommendations. We certainly have!

A squirting orgasm is when a woman ejaculates near or during orgasm. There’s little else that feels as good or offers such an amazing release as female ejaculation!

I must admit that I hate this irreverent term, but it certainly inspires quite a visual. Referred to as “spraying the wall” – squirting orgasms can result in anywhere from a few teaspoons of liquid to more than a cup or two.

Yes, women can ejaculate – as many soaked towels in my laundry basket can attest to! That said though, my new favorite toy is a sex sheet.

I’ve taken to calling it my “magic carpet”. It is not only a velvety delight to lay down on, making me instantly feel deliciously sensual, but it has an inside waterproof layer, and no amount of ejaculate has ever escaped to create that wet spot on the bed.

Knowing that I have it underneath me relaxes me and makes it more likely that I will feel at ease enough to let myself go and ejaculate.

If you want to see it to believe it, take a look at a few female squirting orgasm videos. My boyfriend and I sorted through quite a few badly done videos to find these ones which are informative, if not downright hot!

To get a better sense of what a squirting orgasm is, and how you or your partner can experience one, check out our page on g spot female ejaculation where we go further into depth and also offer you a couple of exercises to jump right in and try female ejaculation for yourself.

There are a few g spot stimulators that I recommend. Probably my favorite is the Rock-Chick vibrator. You can find this and more at our favorite online store Sex Toys Diva. It’s very female friendly, with a special design to help it stimulate the g spot. Its a huge hit in the UK (those kinky brits!.

To get more information on how to best enjoy your g spot (in masturbation, sex, and more) check out our page on g spot stimulation.

Also be sure to subscribe to our free e-course. Its full of our favorite tips, techniques, and exercises on finding and stimulating the g spot.

G spot toys can be hard to figure out and you could easily spend hours and lots of money finding a few good ones (we certainly have), but now, you don’t have to! Our favorite source for G-Spot Toys is SexToysDiva.com. They have a huge selection and the best prices.

We’ve written this page to make it easier for you to choose a few good g spot toys.

First Step: Good Lube

Anytime you play with toys, things will go much smoother with good lubrication. We prefer this water based lube because we can use it all on our sex toys (using a silicone based lube on silicone toys can ruin them).

Second Step: Choosing the Material

When choosing g spot toys, you’ll find there are lots of options: jelly, silicone, plastic, latex, and glass and acrylic. You also have to choose whether you want a dildo, a vibrator, or a vibrating dildo!

Generally the harder materials like glass, acrylic, and plastic give you more intensely focused pressure, while the softer materials like jelly, and silicone are more diffuse.

We prefer to have several g spot toys on hand. You’ll notice sometimes your g-spot wants harder more intense pressure, and sometimes she’ll prefer more diffuse vibration. Options are good!

Third Step: Choosing Your Toys

There are many books and entire websites written on sex toys, dildos, vibrators and the like. Rather than get into all the complexities, we’ve decided to just give you short cut. Below are our favorite g spot toys, and the information you need to know.

We invite you to check these g spot toys out, experiment with them and to have fun. While you likely will not use your g spot toys all the time – they will make a fun addition to your sex life.

If you’re feeling nervous – maybe a beginner with toys – don’t worry! Surprise yourself (or your partner), buy one, and try it out! That’s how we got started.

SlimLine G Spot Vibrator

This is likely one of the cheapest g spot toys we own. At first this made us really skeptical – I mean it’s plastic after all. However, after a “test drive” we quickly came to enjoy it.

The hard plastic gives you a nice hard pressure on the g-spot. The long handle gives you good leverage, and its got a good variable speed vibration that works well on the g-spot and the clitorus. Its also easy to clean – just use purell, or an acohol wipe.

Rock – Chick Vibrator

This g-spot toy comes from the UK where it’s a run-away best seller. When we first saw it, we actually didn’t quite know what to make of it. But, now its one of our favorite g spot toys.

The curved shape is designed to go inside and stimulate your g spot as well as your clitoris at the same time. We found it worked great when I pushed it in and out – giving some extra pressure on my girlfriend’s gspot. Because of the super intelligent design, you’re pretty much guaranteed to hit your g-spot everytime.

If you’re “home-alone” insert it, sit on the edge of the bed and rock back and forth. This motion stimulates the g spot and rubs the clitoris at the same time – a proven combination! : ) Because this toy is silicon, and the vibrator part comes out, its one of the easier g spot toys to clean.

The Crystal Wand

While our first two g spot toys were vibrators, this one is meant as a g spot stimulator. Its made out of lucite – which looks like glass, but is a more affordable non-porous resin.

This toy was designed by an educator on g spot toys, so its curved shape perfectly finds your g-spot every time. Its hard material also gives you hard, direct pressure on your g-spot.

This toy can also be used to hit the g-spot through the anus (yours or his!). Because you can boil it, feel free to enjoy it anyway you like. (For variation you can also warm it, or cool it before play)

While the other vibrating toys are fun – this toy is excellent for slowing things down and helping you connect intimately with your partner while you experiment with different styles, depths and pressures. Check Out Sex Toys Diva to get the best selection of toys!

You might be wondering what exactly is this substance of female ejaculate? And if it is released through the urethra but is not urine – which it is not – then what exactly is it?

It is interesting to know that men also release ejaculate through their urethra, the same tube they pee from. In fact, the whole process of female ejaculation is much like male ejaculation.

Confused at all? Here’s a brief description of the process:

As a woman, when you get turned on, your whole pelvic area begins to get hot and aroused, and the glands that surround your urethra, (called Skene’s paraurethral glands, if you care) start to fill up. This is why sometimes when the g spot gets stimulated, you may feel like you need to pee. Many of these glands cluster to make up the organ known as the beloved g spot.

When you feel your gspot get engorged and protrude more into the vagina, it is the organ filling with female ejaculate. The fluid will either get recycled into the bladder and will come out when you next pee, or it will be released through your urethra as female ejaculation. At times this can mean a few teaspoons, and at others a cup or more!

You still might be wondering – is it urine? The answer is, no, it isn’t! It is a fluid that can be either “milky” or clear, that usually has little or no odor or taste, although this can change depending on your diet or where you are in your menstrual cycle.

The fluid of female ejaculate is a mixture of glucose, fructose, some hormones and acids known as PSA and PAP, with here and there traces of urine. OK – enough of the scientific.

Although you now know a bit more about female ejaculate, many cultures have not only known about it since ancient times but have both celebrated and revered it.

In fact, it was known as “Liquor Vitae” in Ancient Rome, “The Third Water” in Taoist traditions, “Waters of Gaia” or “Waters of Life” in many different indigenous cultures, and is referred to by Tantric or Indian traditions as “Amrita.” In ancient Japan, it was common for women to own “Ejaculation Bowls” for capturing the flow for later use.

And how was it used? Female ejaculate is considered by many to be an aphrodisiac. Many ancient cultures considered it to be a health tonic that had the ability to reverse the aging process, and so they drank it and made tea out of it. Many traditions believe that both male ejaculate and female ejaculate are needed for conception.

OK, so even though most of us won’t be making tea out of female ejaculate, I can recommend a few essential items for your own exploration. Fingers and tongues are excellent.

And, because you likely don’t want to have an ejaculation bowl like in ancient times, I recommend a sex sheetunderneath you. Conversely, you can put down a couple of towels, but we’ve found that sometimes these soak through and leave a set spot.

Also, now that we’ve been experimenting with this for awhile, I’ll be ready to ejaculate without even planning with it. This then used to leave us scrambling for towels, or just messing up the bed and mattress which bothered me.

Now, with a sex sheet we just throw it down when we start having sex and then I can ejaculate or not. It’s got a waterproof inner lining, and a smooth satin side, and a furry side.

Lately, I’ve taken to calling it my magic carpet! Generally, I just love we can throw this down on our sofa, on the floor, or on our bed, and it soaks up whatever comes out.

Having trouble finding your woman’s g spot, here are my three mains suggestions.

1) get clear on what the g spot is

2) understand where the g spot is

3) get your partners help! Ultimately, a womans g spot, is best found with the help of its owner … a woman! : )

To help you with these, I’d recommend you check out our female g spot 101 as it has basic information, pictures and video to help you out.

I’d also recommend watching a video on the topic. Study up a little bit. After all, when you find your woman’s g-spot, she’ll think you’re the best lover she’s ever had! Isn’t it worth a small investment?

Finally, I’d recommend doing a few exercises with your partner – either one on finding the g spot or g spot massage. These should not only help you find the g-spot, but also give you hours of connected, intimate fun.

I also recommend you join our free ecourse. Its full of our favorite tips, techniques and exercises and is an excellent resource.